After joining several cam related communities and talking to people who work in this industry, I have made a friend online, a very nice and friendly guy who decided to share his story with me on what is really like being in a relationship with a cam model. His identity will not be revealed for safety reasons but I hope you will enjoy reading about the other side of the coin.
Disclaimer: This post is brutally honest.
So your dreams have all come true and your girlfriend is a cam model, but can you really imagine what its like to be the partner of a cam model, unless you have been there?Â
Disclaimer: This post is brutally honest.
So your dreams have all come true and your girlfriend is a cam model, but can you really imagine what its like to be the partner of a cam model, unless you have been there?Â
Your first thoughts are all your sexual fantasies have just come true, I got me a real life slut. Fine if that's all you wanted, but lets dig a bit deeper, what if this cam girl is really special and a keeper? Now that's a different story, one I am going to tell, not the boring details but some things you guys may not have considered.Â
Firstly, she is not a slut and is actually very sensitive of being thought of that way in real life, she has hundreds of guys a day wanting her to be a slut, so your sexual fantasies have just gone out of the window because if she has the slightest hint that this is how you see her you are soon going to get dropped and blocked. She is also initially going to have big doubts about the “I really love and care about you” or “you’re gorgeous, I am so lucky to have you”. Yeah, right. Every guy so far wants to fuck me or thinks I am easy, wrong. That means your real feeling for her must be deep and true, and it will take a lot to win her heart and trust you and a long time. So guys do you have a daughter or girlfriend, maybe a wife? How does her showing everything and doing everything for the whole world to see make you feel? Oh and that's not the bad part, a cam girl is looked upon as shit in society, so its not only you that may not want certain people to see her or know what she does for work, she has issues with that too.Â
Now that's the physical sex side but the side that is far far worse is the emotional side. You have not considered that, have you? Well you know when your girl is getting face-booked, chatted up in a bar or messaged by guys hitting on her, now multiply that by hundreds every day, how’s the jealousy and the temper doing? Now all guys think they are wow at sex, but what if she is cumming five times a day through all sorts of sex with other guys online, then when she finishes the very last thing she wants is to have sex with you? Now that tests your manhood and your real love for her, not to mention your ego, you go through all the emotions, jealousy, betrayal, humiliation, failure, anger, believe me at times it is absolute hell.Â
Now that's the physical sex side but the side that is far far worse is the emotional side. You have not considered that, have you? Well you know when your girl is getting face-booked, chatted up in a bar or messaged by guys hitting on her, now multiply that by hundreds every day, how’s the jealousy and the temper doing? Now all guys think they are wow at sex, but what if she is cumming five times a day through all sorts of sex with other guys online, then when she finishes the very last thing she wants is to have sex with you? Now that tests your manhood and your real love for her, not to mention your ego, you go through all the emotions, jealousy, betrayal, humiliation, failure, anger, believe me at times it is absolute hell.Â
Off cam you need to pay careful attention to her emotions and mental state, the sex industry has many hidden psychological dangers that manifest in denial, erratic mood swings, fits of depression, anger and cyberspace can become her world of reality. So you need to be there for her whatever happens, like studio boss hitting on her and trying to fuck her or maybe not paying her. Then there is the abuse she can get online, or by Snap chat or Whats App, maybe a stalker, she may even want to meet members.Â
Can you handle that guys? Well I can. This is why, our relationship is that strong, and yes I can trust her, like she can trust me. Even normal things like shopping for sexy underwear, or sex toys, well guess what guys? Its not for you. So maybe you’re thinking why don’t you tell her to stop or find another pussy? If you love someone that much you do not judge her by what she does, you let her have her freedom of choice, you stand beside that person and put your heart and soul into supporting her work, loving and trusting her, ready to pick her up when she crashes, and always ready for the unexpected to happen.Â
It takes a very tough person to date someone who works in the sex industry so make sure you can handle what you're getting yourself into.
Can you handle that guys? Well I can. This is why, our relationship is that strong, and yes I can trust her, like she can trust me. Even normal things like shopping for sexy underwear, or sex toys, well guess what guys? Its not for you. So maybe you’re thinking why don’t you tell her to stop or find another pussy? If you love someone that much you do not judge her by what she does, you let her have her freedom of choice, you stand beside that person and put your heart and soul into supporting her work, loving and trusting her, ready to pick her up when she crashes, and always ready for the unexpected to happen.Â
It takes a very tough person to date someone who works in the sex industry so make sure you can handle what you're getting yourself into.
