To me the only thing findom and a sugar daddy arrangement have in common is the financial aspect, but as a sugar baby there is an expectation for reciprocation, usually sex. As in findom there is none of that.
As a sugar baby you don’t control, you get controlled.
For example, he can even buy things for you or even promise you an allowance but it’s his choice, he doesn’t ask what you want. It seems nice but the control is in his hands.
If you don’t mind being manipulated go for it, I personally prefer the other way around.
I prefer keeping men on the edge, not knowing…
Maybe we will play safe, maybe I will push your limits. You will never know… It all depends on my mood!