The Journey of Mistress Ebony

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WHERE I MET THEM - PART 2

Feb 1, 2019, 2:15 PM

I’ve talked about them before. If you’re curious here is the link:

https://share.myfreecams.com/MrsFinDom/blogs/the-journey-of-mistress-ebony/the-subs-in-my-life-part-2

Gru – We met when I was his family au-pair. The only thing that was out of the ordinary during my stay, was that he always gave an extra on my allowance, which intrigued Me since he never made any sexual advance towards Me or insinuated anything in a sexual nature.

First, I thought it was some kind of arrangement to buy My loyalty, but it was not that dense. He just likes to flaunt his money.

I kept in touch with the family and when I decided to explore My Domme side he was one of my firsts. He is not really a sub, he just likes someone who he trusts to play with.

WHERE I MET THEM - PART 1

Jan 31, 2019, 2:53 PM

I’ve talked about them before. If you’re curious here is the link:

https://share.myfreecams.com/MrsFinDom/blogs/the-journey-of-mistress-ebony/the-subs-in-my-life-part-1

Seamus – We met when he was married through mutual friends. I consider him a friend of a friend.

Usually I read people very easily and he was an easy read. He is very reserved, if there was a large gathering you would find him in the quiet corner and always seemed to ask permission from his wife for everything.

I think she grew tired of it. Although she has a bossy personality, she’s not Dominant.

He is one of my easy ones. Always eager to please, to push the limits. We have a really good thing going on.

I have to add that not all submissive men act the same and there is a huge difference between being submissive and being a doormat.

NOT-SO-KINKY ENCOUNTERS

Jan 30, 2019, 2:28 PM

I am convinced that My charm gets Me money even outside the kinky world. These are a couple of times that prove Me so.

The Eremit
This one was more of a mid-life-crisis. We met at a meditation group, we got to talking and he ended up telling Me that he was going to sell all his belongings and join some kind of monastery. It seemed so radical that I never thought he was going through it, but he actually did and gave Me all the profit except for the plane ticket.
He moved to the mountains or he is living with monks, I really don’t know. All I know is that he said he was going to be somewhere in Asia

From fat to fab
We went to the gym at the same time, took the same classes, so we ended up becoming gym buddies. He just wanted to make sure that this time he was going to follow through with his program, so he needed someone to put him on a leash. Little did he knew who he was talking to, or maybe he did…
We agreed that he would pay for fines for missing the gym and for not respecting the diet program.
I could always tell that we went astray. Guilt looks the same in everybody.
He always had an excuse for why he didn’t follow the program but the money was always there, so I kept the arrangement going.
I didn’t see much difference in his physique… I think he was a finsub and didn’t even knew it.

DM INVASION

Jan 29, 2019, 2:41 PM

I decided to open My messages requests. Don’t you judge Me... I was bored and I needed a laugh.

The report is simple:

About 90%: "I want to serve but I can't pay" what are you doing approaching a finDomme??? That's just nonsense...
Come on... This is financial domination!!! You pay to speak, you pay to be acknowledged, you pay to entice Me to play, you pay for the chance to get to know what I am about, you pay for EVERYTHING!!!
That kind of broke approach is guaranteed rejection before you even send it...

About 5% - The flirtatious, even aggressive ones.
With that kind of approach, I am not interested. Making money is My only goal in here. Power it’s what excites Me, not your compliments or your fantasies.
I will also include in this percentage the messages with media content. I didn't even open them. I am not wasting time on that.

The other 5% where approached, 4% didn’t obeyed so they were blocked. If you are not supporting, there is nothing you can do for Me

The other 1% sent tribute that later tried to exchange for a session.

In conclusion, I wasted My time, but no worries I've learned My lesson and set a new rule: If I don't receive those 3 tribute notifications in My e-mail inbox I am not opening any messages. I’ll just delete them. (check My pinned tweet for the amount information)

P.S: If you are smart, you'll put your Twitter ID on the tribute notes, so I know who sent it

NOT A SUGAR BABY... AT ALL

Jan 28, 2019, 2:11 PM

To me the only thing findom and a sugar daddy arrangement have in common is the financial aspect, but as a sugar baby there is an expectation for reciprocation, usually sex. As in findom there is none of that.

As a sugar baby you don’t control, you get controlled.

For example, he can even buy things for you or even promise you an allowance but it’s his choice, he doesn’t ask what you want. It seems nice but the control is in his hands.

If you don’t mind being manipulated go for it, I personally prefer the other way around.

I prefer keeping men on the edge, not knowing…

Maybe we will play safe, maybe I will push your limits. You will never know… It all depends on my mood!

A LURKER, A COSTUMER, A FINSUB

Jan 25, 2019, 2:12 PM

A LURKER, A COSTUMER, A FINSUB enter My presence. Here’s how they are dealt with:

My time

- A lurker gets none of My time

- A costumer gets if or when I am available

- For My finsub, I make time for it

My content

- A lurker gets scraps

- A costumer pays content

- My finsub pays for content and gets exclusive, customized content

Contact

- A lurker doesn’t have a chance

- A costumer buys My KIK ID and it has to renew it every 30 days

- My finsub gets My phone number and reminders of who is serving

Rewards

- A lurker gets none

- A costumer may get lucky

- My finsub gets showered

My attention span

- A lurker doesn’t register in My radar

- A costumer unless he splurges, it’s just a blip in My radar

- My finsub deserves My attention

Kind of arrangement

- A lurker gets none

- A costumer gets an interaction here and there

- My finsub gets a tailored arrangement

WHAT I AM LOOKING FOR

Jan 24, 2019, 2:13 PM

I am looking for finsubs that:

· Yearn to please Me, that yearn for My attention and strive to show it.

· Spoil Me with anything I want

· Are open, trustworthy, obedient, loyal

· Are looking for an enjoyable arrangement in which we both feel comfortable to express our likes, limits, and concerns. Just like any other power exchange relationship.

· Get off on being vulnerable once in a while and having someone else take charge.

· Are willing to give themselves without losing themselves, because they have their own life but need a firm hand to control them, to tease them and keep them on edge relentlessly

· Are kinky. Your kinks will only be indulged when I say so.

Is this something you are interested on?

Start the consideration process by taking this survey:

https://www.surveymonkey.com/r/FBGMJMC

and we’ll see if you got what it takes.

P.S:

I am also looking for benefactors, moneyslaves and paypigs.

To prove your value, I have 7 paying tasks for you to perform - much like Hercules 12 labors - and then we'll discuss what position you'll serve Me and your wants and desires

My KIK ID:

MistressEbony88

Text Me the following:

Hello Mistress. May I have task #1? Thank you for allowing me to be of service

HOW I OPERATE - PART 7

Jan 23, 2019, 2:17 PM

If you have sent a DM on Twitter and did not got a response, it’s because you didn’t even bother to read My bio, so whose fault is that?

To make it clear, I only DM those who contribute to make My day easier with at least 3 of my daily activities (check My pinned tweet) or those who join the membership club.

https://share.myfreecams.com/MrsFinDom/clubs

RULE #7

I make it so easy for you to be of use…

I even created various ways for you to contribute. You can:

1. Contribute to my goals:

https://share.myfreecams.com/MrsFinDom/blogs/the-journey-of-mistress-ebony/2019-goals

https://share.myfreecams.com/MrsFinDom/goals

2. Buy my clips. Don’t forget to pay your cum tax:

https://www.manyvids.com/Profile/1002234720/MistressEbony88/

https://share.myfreecams.com/MrsFinDom/albums

https://www.kinkbomb.com/studio/mistressebony/

3. You can order a custom

https://www.manyvids.com/Profile/1002234720/MistressEbony88/

4. You can contribute to my daily activities (check my pinned tweet)

https://twitter.com/MrsFinDom1

5. You can contribute to my daily goal – Follow the #MistressEbonyDailyGoal on Twitter

https://twitter.com/MrsFinDom1

6. You can spoil Me with shoes, flowers, perfumes or something that caught My eye – Follow the #SpoilMistressEbony on Twitter

https://www.manyvids.com/Profile/1002234720/MistressEbony88/#store

https://share.myfreecams.com/MrsFinDom/items

7. You can apply to serve Me as My benefactor, moneyslave or paypig
To prove your value, I have 7 paying tasks for you to perform - much like Hercules 12 labors - and then we'll discuss what position you'll serve Me and your wants and desires

My KIK ID:

MistressEbony88

To begin text Me the following:

Hello Mistress. May I have task #1? Thank you for allowing me to be of service

SO… WITH ALL OF THIS AVENUES, WHAT HAVE YOU DONE FOR ME TO NOTICE YOU?

HOW I OPERATE - PART 6

Jan 22, 2019, 2:03 PM

If you have sent a DM on Twitter and did not got a response, it’s because you didn’t even bother to read My bio, so whose fault is that?
To make it clear, I only DM those who contribute to make My day easier with at least 3 of my daily activities (check My pinned tweet) or those who join the membership club.
https://share.myfreecams.com/MrsFinDom/clubs

RULE #6
Sessions are scheduled beforehand, so don’t expect to text Me and get booked on the same day;
And if for any reason you can’t make it to the session - because things do happen - the session will be rescheduled not refunded. I don’t do refunds;
Also, you have your hard limits, I have mine.
I always discuss limits and expectations before, so if I told you that I am not into something, don’t expect Me to change My mind in the middle of a session;

HOW I OPERATE - PART 5

Jan 21, 2019, 2:02 PM

If you have sent a DM on Twitter and did not got a response, it’s because you didn’t even bother to read My bio, so whose fault is that?

To make it clear, I only DM those who contribute to make My day easier with at least 3 of my daily activities (check My pinned tweet) or those who join the membership club.

https://share.myfreecams.com/MrsFinDom/clubs

RULE #5
I don’t do cash apps, but I accept Amazon Gift Cards (US/UK) as a form of tribute.
The tribute link is in EVERY tweet that requires you to tribute, so don’t ask Me how to send it, but in case you haven’t notice here it is again:

Tribute link:
https://www.manyvids.com/Profile/1002234720/MistressEbony88/

Amazon Gift Cards (US/UK)
MrsFinDom@gmail.com

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