Look, I still think it isn’t the most aesthetically pleasing toy out there. But I can’t pretend I’m not intrigued by how using this toy would feel, as well as how it would feel to have you in total control of the vibrations. EDIT: learnt that the Domi (the Lovense wand vibrator) can be strapped to me with a harness....seriously considering this as an alternative. What do you think? EDIT: Thank you all so much to everyone who contributed! We decided to go with the Domi and it's ordered! Can't wait to do a show with it for you!