Though I wouldn't call this my wheelhouse, every now and again I'll stumble upon a member, all wide-eyed and bushy tailed, asking for a firm hand to tease, guide, train, or discipline them.

While I welcome the opportunity for growth and play, I never want to put someone in a position that would leave them feeling disrespected, hurt, humiliated, or in any sort of negative headspace after engaging in a BDSM scene. I also never want to put someone in real financial hardship. If you are not of a clear mind, please do not engage in a scene that you may regret.

To my subs (past, present, and future): I look forward to exploring your kinks and fetishes with you in a way that serves your needs and well-being. Know that I am not a mind reader so it is on you to tell me your likes, dislikes, hard limits, etc. This can happen before, during, and after a scene.

If you are in need of aftercare, please do not hesitate to reach out.