I'd like to have my papa's ashes close to me, and this is something he would have loved and chosen himself as his resting place. It's an expensive, quality, 14k solid gold urn cross pendant that I can wear every day, every where, without worrying about it tarnishing. This would be the most sentimental gift/item that I've ever received. No one on this planet even came close in regard to how much I loved my papa and cherished our relationship. He was everything to me and losing him has been incredibly ✱✱✱✱. If you'd like to spoil me with a heartfelt gift, this is certainly the one ❤️