"How many men I have heard say they want an intelligent woman in their lives ... I would encourage them to think it through.
The smart women:
They make decisions for themselves, they have their own wishes and they set limits.
You will never be the center of her life because it revolves around herself.
An intelligent woman is not going to allow herself to be manipulated or blackmailed, she does not swallow blame, she assumes responsibilities.
Intelligent women question, analyze, discuss, do not settle, move forward.
Those women had life before you, and they know that they will continue to have it once you are gone.
She is there to warn, not to ask permission.
These women do not look for a leader in their partner to follow, a father to solve their lives, or a son to rescue.
They do not want to follow you or mark the way for anyone, they want to walk by your side.
She knows that life free of violence is a right, not a luxury or a privilege.
They express anger, sadness, joy and fear alike, because they know that fear
it does not make them weak in the same way that anger does not make them "masculine."
Those two emotions and the others, all together, make her human.
An intelligent woman is free because she has fought for her freedom, but she is not a victim, she is a survivor.
Don't try to chain her, because she will know how to escape, she remembers that she has done it before.
The intelligent woman knows that her value does not lie in the appearance of her body
nor in what she does with him.
Think about it before judging her on her age, height, volume or sexual behavior,
because this is emotional violence and she knows it.
"So ... before you open your mouth to say that you want a" smart "woman in your life, ask yourself if you are really cut out to fit hers."
Author: Gabriel García Márquez