We're both girls. I'm your fitness instructor. After our latest session, I start asking if you've noticed improvements in your fitness. Are the sessions easier? Do you see your muscles? Do you have more stamina? You said you wanted to increase your stamina for better sex. Has that gotten better? But you and your husband don't have sex often enough for you to even tell. What about, you know ... masturbation? Exercise can improve that too! It can make you have better orgasms. You say you have trouble making yourself orgasm. Well ... maybe you just need someone to teach you how?