The art of porn
Surprise, surprise, what could this story be about? Hardcore sex? Porn videos?
So my brain works like a labyrinth. Some ideas of mine intersect. This guy is actually an ongoing story. OMG, this is so interesting!
So I was laying on my back(again...i am not lazy in bed, just that men want to take control for some reason, ok?) and he was pushing his cock inside of me and I raised one of my legs above my head and that move totally blew our minds because the angle of penetration was like crazy arousing. My G spot is located in a funny place...hahah. It is not on the middle, but on the left side of the vagina. My left side. And every move he was doing was right on the G spot. It felt like a dance of pleasure that was getting me closer and closer to that screaming moment and I felt that my pussy was getting tighter and tighter and tighter and I was feeling his cock so much better now that I was getting close to exploding..push, pull, push, pull and he pulled out. I looked at him and he said: "I felt like cumming, I had to get out. I want this moment to last longer". I smiled at him and then we decided to go back to our friend who was not getting involved anymore...Well, surprise, surprise, she was asleep. And I can totally understand that. She didn't have the same sex-drive as we did and she was not completely present there, if you know what I mean. I have been in her shoes in my other threesome(I have only had 2 threesomes so far - Jan 2022)
And this is how the 3some turned into sex with a stranger. A stranger who knew his way between a lady's legs. Next to the couch where we were enjoying these moments there was a big mirror right on the dressing. I guess it is even more stimulating to have the image of you doing it while you are actually doing it. That is the beauty of LIVE and LIFE. So we tried some doggy, of course, him behind me. And what I do love to see is a man's facial expression while he is fucking. Did you guys ever realize how hot you are when you are trying to for example, put the cock inside when you are fucking your lady doggy or when you are looking at the cock sliding in and out of the pussy? I will definitely get a mirror in my bedroom. 
It felt so hot to be possessed by him, it was the first time ever that someone managed to actually dominate me in bed with what he was doing(sex related stuff). It is not about pushing a woman's head while she is sucking you, it is about something more than that(I bite if someone pushes my head without actually knowing I agree to that)-it is the way she feels when she sees that a man knows that women need foreplay and a certain rhythm in bed. This and proper clit stimulation will get you a lot of OOOOHS..REAL ONES!
Doggy is actually an awesome position for a nice orgasm because I can play with Domi on my clit and he can hit my G spot perfectly. He was pushing and pulling and pushing and looking down and then back in the mirror. I love facial expressions and he had lots of those. It is so nice when you can express yourself the way you want without any judgement. And as I was getting more aroused he turned me on my back because well, we both loved that bendy position. And he was very hard. I mean that hardness that you get when you feel very aroused. So after sticking his cock inside my pussy, he pushed a few times and then he whispered in my ear: "Shall we take a break?"
The next part next time. After the break, of course;)
Here I was, down on my knees, on the couch, as he was standing up in front of me. As I was sucking him, I was looking at him from time to time to check if what I was doing was ok. The previous sexual experience had been with the guy I'd been talking about in the beginning of this blog. He really seem to genuinely enjoy my mouth play. So I kept on sucking him deeper every time and I was able to deepthroat him in that position. That was the moment I learned that dicks can actually bend forward. Well, apparently NOT ALL DICKS are THAT bendy, but some are. So I kept pushing it in more and more down my throat until I took it all in. That was when I decided to try something with my throat. I remember there was a song from 2Feet playing on the background, so I tried to sync my moves with the music. This is how I started playing with my throat: contracting and then pause, contraction, pause and then more contraction. It was absolutely crazy. I still have no idea where I got that wave of inspiration though. But he loved it. After I have no idea how long, he said he wanted to fuck my pussy. So we started missionary first. I was so freaking wet from all the sucking(yes, somehow bjs make me wet - don't ask why, I have absolutely no clue), so the dick slided in pretty easy. But what made me start wondering was the fact that he knew how to move RIGHT. Everytime he pushed, he hit my Gpot, He really seemed to know the moves. I had Domi on my clit and I was enjoying the pleasure of fucking. I think he was the guy who taught me this. It seems like it's not all about the big O. Once we age, our bodies are not as easygoing as they used to. So that night served me as lesson: there is more to sex than just the orgasm. Sometimes the person who doesn't seem like "the type" who knows how to fuck is the exact person who sees this sex thing as an art, so don't be too quick in judging anybody. I know I've had my share of surprises, some of them good. I was on my back, enjoying the pleasure of penetration and he had such a nice rhythm in his hips that each move was driving me absolutely crazy and I wanted more and more. But more on that in The next episode. 
This is one of the most popular ideas when it comes to sex: threesomes. I hope I am right. At the present moment, I can say that I experienced 2 threesomes. Both of them were fails(at least from my own point of view because not everybody experienced the pleasure of being with 2 people at the same time - that is a successful 3some to me). Let me tell you more about one that led to a grea chemistry. It even surprised me. So there I was one evening, home, when I got a message from my friend(girl). She was with a guy but they wanted to spice things up a little more so she decided to ask me if I wanted to have a 3some. I said yes and that was just for her because I kind of fantasized about having sex with a woman  and I really wanted to try that with a friend(and she knew that). So I went there(it took me a while to get there. I had to walk my dog first. And get ready) and when I enterred the house, they were in the kitchen, really comfortable, waiting for me. Maybe a little mad too...hihihi. Anyway, we started having a conversation and after a while we went upstaris, in the bedroom. My friend told me before that she is a natural squirter so I was very curious about that too. I couldn't squirt back then. So she became the main attention in the room. We were trying to make her relax with kisses and sweet caresses. She pulled out her wand and she gave it to me as she laid down naked on the couch(it was a big couch, right next to the bed). So I started the wand and placed it on her clit. She was moaning. That was a good sign. Then i tried to put one finger inside. I tried to be as gentle as possible because I know how sensitive pussies can get, especially when there are vibrations involved. I could feel her pussy wrapping up around my finger and I started moving my finger in and out but not a long move. It was rather a short distance, but the speed was pretty high. All I had to do was make sure that I sync the movement of my finger with the movement of the toy on the clit. Her moans were guiding me as she was getting closer to climax. And then she kind of hummed to get the finger out. And I did. But the wand never stopped. I was very focused on her and what was going on there. It was absolutely fascinating, especially when she started poouring liquid..She was moaning and moaning with pleasure. I loved that moment so much. I absolutely love giving pleasure.
But the experience was not only about her, so while she was savouring her pleasure moment, I turned back to the nmasculine presence in the room. He loved the moment too. I got closer to him and started kissing him for just a little bit and then my mouth started moving down: neck, chest, abdomen to finally get to his cock. I took it in my mouth. It felt good and I heard him gently moaning and sighing. I guess it was a release: better than he expected. Good. We were off to a good start. And then he said: "you are very good with this". I smiled and continued playing in and out with the cock and I was just savouring the firmness of his erection and the pulsing that was going on in my mouth or throat every time I tried something new. I tried quite a few things that night..but more on that next time... 
I know I am not a very patient person by nature, but luckily for me, it is a virtue anyone can cultivate. A voice in my head kept telling me this was not a good idea, but everybody deserves a chance, right? After a while he came back from the store with some condoms. This time I told him to go to straight to the bedroom. Of course he was not hard anymore, so I went down on him again, but not for too long this time. He was hard and ready, so we put that wonderful rubber on. But he kind of failed in making me get wet. I mean, WHERE IS THE FOREPLAY? I put some spit because if the pussy is not wet, the cock will not enter. At least not in a pleasant way. We were sitting in the missionary position at first. I saw that he wanted to have the control, so I let him stay on top. I had Domi with me(I always do when I am having sex), so I turned it on and placed it on my clit as he was penetrating me. It felt good...until he decided to change the rhythm. He started going faster. I couldn't hold Domi still anymore on the clit and this situation was making it quite difficult for me to get aroused. And then he turned me over, I was sitting in doggy. He started slow and then he started moving faster again. He kept changing the rhythm. At some point I told him to maintain a constant rhythm because I am never going to cum this way. He did. For a few minutes maybe(I don't know, I didn't have a clock close to me) and then again he changed the rhythm. Or the position.  He got me so dry, that you could compare my vagina with the dessert...hahahah. We got into way too many positions in such a SHORT AMOUNT OF TIME. I was feeling like a porn star in a porn movie: switching positions, he was still "posing" just like the guys in porn do. It was awful, I barely got to have an orgasm. I was so surprised that I managed to cum after that long time of bad fucking(1 hour is a long time when you are not enjoying the activity). Usually bad fucking occurs when there is no communication, but it was not the case here because I had specifically told him to maintain a constant rhythm and the same position again and again, but I guess he just didn't care. He continued after I came and after a while he came too. So I got dressed and went back to the living room to smoke a cigarette. He joined me shortly and we started talking. He confessed to me that he actually has a girlfriend(I am not fond of being lied to - I'd rather hear the truth no matter what). That got me thinking a little bit: if he fucked me that bad, I wonder how his girlfriend felt like every single time they were having sex. He definitely didn't know what he was doing there, he was just so focused on his own pleasure, that he forgot about my presence there(in bed I mean). Unfortunately, this is a very common occurrence, especially in men under 30.
One detail that I remember that really bothered me was the fact that he kept looking at his watch. At some point I asked him if he has to be somewhere and he said that he didn't. He even started kissing me and tried to undress me to go again, but I told him that he should probably go home and if he has more sexual need, his girlfriend can handle it. I didn't see that guy for the second time, I even got him to block me because I have been brutally honest to him on the phone(every once in a while he would text me to meet and one time he called me). 
This experience was good because I have learnt about what I don't like. I truly believe that discovering your own body is a journey as long as your life. The body  is constantly changing, the tastes are changing, the feelings  are changing, so there is always something new to discover about the body. It is never too late to start learning or communicating with your partner.
I wish you an awesome day/night!
I work in the sex industry, I am completely fascinated with it and especially with the pleasure. I see sex like an art, a form of expressing your deepest and darkest desires, a way to release stress and a million ways of giving and receiving pleasure. It is such a complex part of our lives, that i don't think you can experience everything in only one lifetime. And this is why I keep trying and trying to find chemistry in bed, to see my partner willing to learn if he doesn't know, to learn my parner's soft spots, to discover his body, to explore every single centimeter of him(or her - although I stil haven't had a one on one session with a girl). It is indeed true that our bodies change. I have seen that in myself. When I was younger, I used to enjoy sex for just 15 minutes and then I would get bored. Now, I could fuck for an entire day and I'd still want some more the next day. I don't really know if this is a phase or this is just the way I am. Anyway, you will understand why I mentioned all the above shortly.
I was shopping one day in a sports store. I was in line, waiting for my turn to pay the stuff and the cashier asks me about some card. He told me it takes like a few moments to fill in the info. I accepted and gave him the info he asked for. Then I left. After a while a get a message from someone telling me that he is the guy from the store. He took my number and decided to try something with me. I asked him his age - 26 - young...but I decided to give him a chance. I am a straightforward person, so even before we met, I told him that we will meet at my place because I live close to my work and that I don't feel comfortable sleeping with him after we have sex, so he should go home after and sleep in his own bed. I think he was not very happy about the sleeping arrangements. The day we meet finally arrives. I go downstairs to pick him up, he has a nice bottle of wine, all good. 
We are now in the living room, on the couch, talking, then he starts kissing me. So I get on top of him and start moving down, heading to the cock. I could feel him pushing me, but I didn't say anything. Just a rookie mistake. I will let this one slide. And then I unzip his pants, take off his jeans and then his underwear, leaving the cock naked. I start sucking him. I can feel his hands on my head trying to push me. And just as he started pushing my head, my teeth immediately started clenching...oopsie...he didn't ask me if he could push my head before...that was his warning. He stopped trying to push my head. Good boy. But I couldn't help but notice his position. It was like the position the guys in porn use when they are getting sucked while sitting down. I think you know what I mean. One hand behind his head, like a relaxed position and the other on the head of the partner who is sucking him. Yes , i know they do that in porn, but that is porn, not real sex..
That was the moment I realized that we actually don't have too much information on how to please the partner, man or woman. For women things are actually quite easy because the sensitive area of men is sitting right in front of our eyes, up and hard. And yes, I mean THE COCK. For men things are a lilttle different because they have to search for that spot inside, they can't see there, so the feeling is all they have left. I am trying to be understanding because I know how difficult it is to please a woman. 
So going back to our story, I kept on sucking him and at some point I asked him if he is getting close to cum and he said he doesn't cum like that, he needs to fuck in order to cum. Well, that was unexpected...hehe...and then I ask him: "Do you have condoms?" and he replies "No, but I am healthy". My first reaction was to laugh in his face and to tell him that I will not take his word because when it comes to my health, I just don't. So I sent him to buy some. Luckily for him, the authorities hadn't yet closed the nonstop stores(this occurred in 2020), so there was a place he could go and buy some. And he did. And then the story moves to the bedroom...
But this is a story for another day. Have an awesome day!